For Christmas, we met my parents in the South of Spain and then tacked on a few days in Madrid. We stayed in a nice resort outside of Malaga (technically in Marbella) for a week and made day trips to Granada, Seville, and Tangier. It was so nice to be able to travel somewhere new (where they spoke Spanish and not French!) and we got to visit Africa! In Madrid, we stayed in the center, went to a few museums, got lots of tapas, and walked around the city. All in all, it was a really fun trip and Chase did pretty well with all of the traveling.
Saturday, July 18, 2015
Accidental Hiatus
It has been almost 6 months since my last post! I don't even know how this happened!! After this post, I am posting 5 posts that are catch-ups from the last 6 months (some will show up before chronologically because I started them a while ago). I don't know how people blog weekly or even daily! It's hard work!
Thursday, January 1, 2015
2014 in Review
The number of blog posts in 2014 was super low but it was one busy year!
Some important events:
- April 12th, 2014: Chase was born!
- May 30th, 2014: I got my Ph.D.!
- July 12th, 2014: Chase was baptised!
- August 14th, 2014: We left Cambridge!
- September 7th, 2014: We arrived in Switzerland!
- October 1st, 2014: I started my post-doc!
Unlike last year, our traveling was a bit limited, but we did move to a new continent, so I guess that counts. The traveling that we did do includes:
- May 18th - 20th: Connecticut (Hartford)
- May 30th - 31st: Rhode Island (Newport)
- July 4th - July 13th: Nebraska (Omaha)
- July 19th - 20th: New York (NYC)
- August 14th - September 3rd: California (San Diego)
- September 7th --> Moved from Massachusetts to Switzerland
- September 9th - September 15th: France (outskirts of Geneva)
- December 21st - December 30th: Spain (Malaga, Seville, Granada, Madrid) and Morocco (Tangier)
In his 8.5 months, little Chase has now been to 3 continents (North America, Europe, Africa), 5 countries (USA, Switzerland, France, Spain, Morocco), and 6 states (MA, CT, RI, NY, NE, CA). As a fetus, he had been to two continents (North America, Europe), 6 countries (USA, Ukraine, Russia, Italy, Mexico x 2, Switzerland), and 5 states (MA, TX, NE, CA, FL). Together that makes 3 continents, 9 countries, and 8 states. Such a ridiculously well-traveled little baby.
For crafts, there were a bunch of Chase related things: fixing my winter coat, announcement cards, random improvements, and my crazy recording of Chase data.
In terms of home improvements: we fixed our TV, organised our whole apartment, and got a new washer and dryer.
If you would like to see many Chase pictures, don't forget to follow my Instagram. Everything is mirrored on my Twitter and both are on the top of the blog homepage in case you forget. I will leave you with a picture collage from 2014 (made mostly of Instagram pictures):
Trips around Switzerland
We have lived in Switzerland for almost 4 months now! Time goes so quickly. Unfortunately, we haven't had much of a chance to travel because Chase has been sick pretty much the whole time! We did make an effort to go to a few nearby places.
I have marked them on the map below to show that we've not traveled very far (we live in Morges -- the western-most pin on the map below).
I went on a post-doc retreat in the beginning of November, and families could join the second day. We went on an epic hike in the mountains. It was definitely the most Swiss place we've visited so far!
In November, for Thanksgiving, Annie came to visit us from France. With her, we went to Montreax and discovered a huge Christmas market with a ferris wheel! We definitely want to go back sometime when we have more time to spend there.
We hope to visit many more places in the new year, especially outside of French Switzerland!
I have marked them on the map below to show that we've not traveled very far (we live in Morges -- the western-most pin on the map below).
The first place may not even count because it is so close, but it is the largest city near us and is a fun place to hang out. We went there on Chase's 6 month birthday and walked around.
I went on a post-doc retreat in the beginning of November, and families could join the second day. We went on an epic hike in the mountains. It was definitely the most Swiss place we've visited so far!
In November, for Thanksgiving, Annie came to visit us from France. With her, we went to Montreax and discovered a huge Christmas market with a ferris wheel! We definitely want to go back sometime when we have more time to spend there.
We hope to visit many more places in the new year, especially outside of French Switzerland!
Sunday, October 5, 2014
Our Swiss Apartment!
So, we have finally moved in, unpacked, and settled into our apartment. Chase has started daycare and I started my post-doc this past week, so we're almost all situated (except for the fact that we still don't have a bank account because it takes nearly forever for American citizens and we're still waiting for our living permit because that comes only after the working permit -- so much paperwork!). Either way, I wanted to share pictures of our apartment and a few things about living here that are very different (and annoying) as compared to the US.
This is the layout of our apartment:
This is the layout of our apartment:
If anybody has been keeping up with the Mindy Project, Nate just quoted "It's very dangerous for a stranger to know the layout of your house!"
The apartment is bigger than our apartment in Cambridge, mostly because the bedrooms are larger and there is a real kitchen and hallway. We had a few boxes (a "few": 13 from Cambridge, 4 from Gretna, and 3 from San Diego -- although many of them were fairly small) shipped over with our clothes, accessories, and some Chase stuff (high chair and crib). Thankfully, there is IKEA very close to the apartment (only a 7 minute train ride), so we were able to get all our furniture there. In planning for it, I went a bit crazy and made a few inspiration/color boards:
After a few too many trips to IKEA (I think we went 4 times total, but the time I was actually getting all the furniture for delivery, I was alone with Chase and quickly running out of time so it was quite stressful!!), we got everything to the apartment and then actually built everything. Since Nate was at work most of the time, I ended up building everything myself -- except for the bed, which was Nate's project. It took us only about a week to get everything done, but then some more time to clean up all the boxes and unpack everything.
Last week, we got the name plate for our mailbox and our door, which makes me feel super official:
We're on the 4th floor -- which is actually the 5th floor because the ground floor is usually floor 0. Our apartment has one of those elevators where you have to open and close the door yourself at the different floors. These seem to be pretty popular in European (small) apartment buildings but I've never seen them in the US.
Without further ado,
The kitchen:
The fridge is to the left of the stove (where the luncbox is hanging). It seems to be pretty common to have fridges concealed in cabinets like that. The stove is electric -- much to Nate's delight, although I have to say, I enjoy how much easier clean-up is on an electric stove!
The bathroom:
It's not super large, but larger than our bathroom in Cambridge.
The dining room:
The pictures look like it's wood overkill, but really, in person it's not so bad. These pictures show the hallway back to the front door with the doorways for the kitchen and bathroom. The left picture has an inset for our router, Time Machine, Ooma, and phone. Ooma is a service where you can set up any phone number to call through wi-fi so we have it set up for Nate's US phone number (my US phone number goes through Google voice now). So, if you want to give us a call, you can call Nate's number and that handset seen on the left will ring. Obviously, don't call us in the middle of the night or anything (time zones are hard!).
The living room:
There are glass doors that separate the dining room from the living room, but we have them always open. The living room has a balcony that goes out to the street. The red MM that you can see in the picture is the grocery store. It is so close!!
Chase's Room:
Since we never set up a nursery for Chase in our old apartment, I had extra fun setting this up for him. He has these gymnastic mats to hang out on which work well since he is now sitting up, but sometimes trying to move and then falling over. He has a table with books on it, a soft chest thing for his toys, and his changing pad on top of an organizer that has clothes, diapers, books, blankets, and extra toys. We were debating getting him an actual crib but for now, the pack and play is working ok and we'd rather get him a toddler bed and/or mattress on the floor when he is a little bit older.
Our room:
Our room also has a balcony -- facing a few small lawns/parks. It's really nice and quiet on that side. The only issues with both balconies are the birds! So many birds around. We need to hang some wind chimes or something to discourage them from hanging out on/above our balconies and pooping everywhere! In just the last almost three weeks, the balcony outside our bedroom is already a mess!
Now for some fun surprising (and annoying) things we've learned from our first few weeks living here:
1. Apartments do not come with light fixtures. When we walked in, there was a light in the bathroom medicine cabinet and one in the fan above the stove. That is all. Thank goodness I had grabbed a light from IKEA or we wouldn't have had any lighting in any of the other rooms the first night. We have installed some lights (dining room and our room as you can see above), but not in others (you can see the wires hanging free in the first picture of the living room) because only some rooms have the hooks that you can hang lights from. The other rooms you have to nail/screw in the light fixtures and we haven't had much luck with that -- the one in our kitchen is half up. Hopefully we'll fix it soon!
2. The freezers are tiny! As you can see from the picture above, the fridge itself is not that large, but as seen below, the freezer is inside that small fridge! And as you can see, it's completely filled with frozen breast milk for Chase. Here, people go to the store much more often (at least every few days -- sometimes everyday!). And they don't use as many frozen items as we do the US -- if any at all!
3. The laundry! There is one washer and one dryer for the building (16 apartments total). Every apartment has ONE 4-6 hour spot once a week (!!) when you can go and do laundry. There is a card that you need to get through a specific company that has value stored on it. You swipe it to start the washer or dryer and it deducts some large amount (like 5000 credits) and then swipe after it's done so that it refunds part of the credits (like 4000 of them). That way, you have incentive to come back and get your clothes right away and don't go out of turn. The door also shuts at 10pm and you can't use it on Sunday.
4. Recycling is a full-time job. We have boxes for glass, plastic, cardboard, and aluminum. Oh, and compost -- which has special bags. They all have to be sorted and put in the appropriate shoots out on the street. Trash itself is really regulated -- you have to buy special bags that cost 2 Francs per 35 L bag! It definitely makes sense to recycle, but it's really time consuming!
5. Most of the stores are closed by 7pm most weekdays, even earlier on Saturday, but sometimes stay open later on Fridays (although only by about an hour). And pretty much everything is closed Sunday! It's crazy! Many places also take an hour or two for lunch so it's hard to get anything done between noon and 2pm (like city offices, post offices, banks, etc.). It's so different than the 24/7 hours of many places in the US. Or at least, like midnight for the grocery stores.
These are just the main things that we've noticed so far as the largest differences. I'm sure there will be many more to come!
Thursday, September 4, 2014
Moving out!
It is appropriate that I am typing this from a hotel room in Boston.
As I mentioned here, there was a list of things we had to do before moving out:
As I mentioned here, there was a list of things we had to do before moving out:
- install ceiling fan in our bedroom
- send personal knick-knacks for long-term storage to my parents' house
- sell the twin bed/nightstand
- PACK PACK PACK!!
- donate everything else that we cannot pack/give to friends
Living room & the two things I gained while living in Cambridge!! Haha.
And, we actually got everything done!! I kind of can't even believe it (I was finishing up work, going to a conference, hosting collaborators, while taking care of Chase and Nate was furiously finishing parts of his experiment that he needed to take to Geneva). Nate was convinced it would only take us 5 hours to pack, whereas I thought it would take about two weeks. It took us about 5 hours per weekend during the first two weekends in August, along with about 5 hours a day for the last 5 days before the move (on August 14th). So, probably one solid week of only packing would have been correct, after the sorting and packing I had been doing here and there since February. Nate was also convinced that it would only take 8 boxes -- whereas I said at least 20. We ended up with 18 boxes total - 13 from Cambridge, 2 from Omaha, and 3 from San Diego. They were various sizes, so I guess depending on the sizes each one of us could have been right. In the end, I overestimated and Nate underestimated. But, we got everything packed and out of the apartment.
Second bedroom, bathroom, kitchen
We didn't actually sell the twin bed -- we donated it. But, we did end up having to sell the couch (the person who initially wanted decided to take another one) and that did get sold. We gave away our TV and coffee table to friends because the tenants didn't want those either. We had an open house to say goodbye to our friends and gave away anything they were willing to take. In the end, the left overs got donated along with clothing and other items that had accumulated in the apartment after our 5 years there. We made a detailed list (super conservative) for tax purposes and it seems we donated close to $1300.
Master bedroom and walk-in closet
We left our beloved (okay, maybe only beloved by me because Nate still doesn't think you can love living spaces) furnished but empty-of-our-stuff apartment on the 14th. Nate went straight to Geneva to find us an apartment. Chase and I went to San Diego to chill for a few weeks and hang out with my parents. Now, Chase and I are stopping over in Boston with my mom (who works here) for a few days before the two of us travel (ALONE!! So scared to travel alone with a 4.5 month old!) to meet up with Nate. We will have about 3 weeks to hopefully (fingers crossed!) move into our apartment and get settled before I am starting my post-doc. I will be sure to regale you of stories of how frustrating it is that everything in the US is designed only for 110V, how annoying it is not to have access to laundry 24/7, and how ridiculous it is that grocery stores can be closed for most of the weekend! And that's just what I can think of right now -- I'm sure there will be tons and tons more stories of our life abroad.
A bonus of Chase "flying" while flying! Also known as the reason I'm hoping to have Michelle Obama arms soon -- lifting him up like that for an extended time is not easy!
Wednesday, September 3, 2014
Chase-Related Home "Improvements" and Crafts
Chase was almost exactly 4 months when we moved out of our apartment and in those 4 months we figured out surprising things that did and didn't work for us in terms of having a baby in our apartment.
Biggest thing that did not work for us (mostly me): having him in the room with us
Before Chase was born, I would scoff at those who thought babies needed their own room. Why wouldn't he just sleep in his crib in our room? I thought. Well, a few days after he was born, I found out that little Chase was a noisy sleeper and every little noise would wake me up and put me on edge. Nate could sleep through it all without a care in the world! Lucky him! I was getting even less sleep than I should have been because Chase's breathing, sighing, even moving was keeping me wide awake! I also theorized that he could smell my milk when I came into the bedroom to sleep so that was also waking him up, making his sleep worse. So, at a few weeks old (maybe 3, I don't even remember anymore!! How quickly it goes!) we moved him to the spare bedroom and it made both of us happier. Although we never really set up a real "nursery," we did pretty much give him his own room by putting his crib and his changing table/dresser in there.
Biggest nice surprise: having the twin bed in the extra bedroom
Even though we got rid of the twin bed (see next post), having it in the spare bedroom was amazing. I could feed Chase there at night, it would keep both of us from waking up too much, and then I could put him in his crib before going back to my own bed. It worked out so well!
Biggest "I told you so"... from our end: cloth diapers
Everyone told us we would never stick with the cloth diapers -- except for Nate's mom who seemed to be our only supporter. We started out with prefolds and covers and then transitioned to pockets (that means nothing to almost all of humanity, but they are cloth diaper terms that I would love to discuss with anyone who cares). We got an amazing deal on craigslist and I painstakingly replaced the elastics on 23 diapers (really the only "craft" part of this post -- but boy was it time consuming!). We love cloth diapers and it actually makes me sad that we may not be able to use them in Switzerland due to us probably not having a washing machine in unit. We made do washing them in our old washing machine (running an extra rinse cycle manually before the wash cycle), but with our new washing machine (see last post), it was even easier! Not only could they be washed directly due to him only receiving breast milk, but they held in poop SO much better than disposables. In the end, we did end up using overnight disposable diapers because this Chase character is the heaviest wetter ever, but one diaper every night made sense economically, and only putting ~700 diapers in the landfill rather than ~6,000 makes sense environmentally. We still use disposables when traveling short term or when we had sitters so those numbers about are a bit of a lie.
Biggest saver of space and money: minimalism
We really tried to get by with the fewest items possible, mostly because our apartment is small and we were going to move so soon. People were so kind and gifted us many clothes and toys/gear. We also received some hand-me-downs which were awesome. Chase outgrew things SO quickly so we tried to pass it forward and gave away old clothes, the swing, and many accessories. Overall, Chase is just happy chilling on the floor with a few toys, although he won't say no to an activity mat. He did have a swing but he wasn't much of a fan and he already outgrew it. Other than that, we were able to get by without any kind of rockers or seats or activity centers. He has a pack-and-play as a crib, a $10 changing pad attached to the top of a dresser, and will have a high chair when we get to Switzerland. Overall, we could have gotten by with even less, but it was nice to have the things we did.
Biggest baby ever: Chase
Both our mothers found our weight records for our first few months (my mom even had it charted on old school graph paper for both my brother and me so I digitalized those points to start). I combined the information and added Chase's info to objectively conclude that Chase is a freakishly large baby. I'm really hoping he is plateauing because he is in 12-18 month clothes and is 4 months old! I am hoping once he starts moving he will get leaner. We got him some sturdy clothes for Switzerland so it would be nice for them to last an appropriate amount of time!
Biggest thing that did not work for us (mostly me): having him in the room with us
Before Chase was born, I would scoff at those who thought babies needed their own room. Why wouldn't he just sleep in his crib in our room? I thought. Well, a few days after he was born, I found out that little Chase was a noisy sleeper and every little noise would wake me up and put me on edge. Nate could sleep through it all without a care in the world! Lucky him! I was getting even less sleep than I should have been because Chase's breathing, sighing, even moving was keeping me wide awake! I also theorized that he could smell my milk when I came into the bedroom to sleep so that was also waking him up, making his sleep worse. So, at a few weeks old (maybe 3, I don't even remember anymore!! How quickly it goes!) we moved him to the spare bedroom and it made both of us happier. Although we never really set up a real "nursery," we did pretty much give him his own room by putting his crib and his changing table/dresser in there.
Biggest nice surprise: having the twin bed in the extra bedroom
Even though we got rid of the twin bed (see next post), having it in the spare bedroom was amazing. I could feed Chase there at night, it would keep both of us from waking up too much, and then I could put him in his crib before going back to my own bed. It worked out so well!
Biggest "I told you so"... from our end: cloth diapers
Everyone told us we would never stick with the cloth diapers -- except for Nate's mom who seemed to be our only supporter. We started out with prefolds and covers and then transitioned to pockets (that means nothing to almost all of humanity, but they are cloth diaper terms that I would love to discuss with anyone who cares). We got an amazing deal on craigslist and I painstakingly replaced the elastics on 23 diapers (really the only "craft" part of this post -- but boy was it time consuming!). We love cloth diapers and it actually makes me sad that we may not be able to use them in Switzerland due to us probably not having a washing machine in unit. We made do washing them in our old washing machine (running an extra rinse cycle manually before the wash cycle), but with our new washing machine (see last post), it was even easier! Not only could they be washed directly due to him only receiving breast milk, but they held in poop SO much better than disposables. In the end, we did end up using overnight disposable diapers because this Chase character is the heaviest wetter ever, but one diaper every night made sense economically, and only putting ~700 diapers in the landfill rather than ~6,000 makes sense environmentally. We still use disposables when traveling short term or when we had sitters so those numbers about are a bit of a lie.
Biggest saver of space and money: minimalism
We really tried to get by with the fewest items possible, mostly because our apartment is small and we were going to move so soon. People were so kind and gifted us many clothes and toys/gear. We also received some hand-me-downs which were awesome. Chase outgrew things SO quickly so we tried to pass it forward and gave away old clothes, the swing, and many accessories. Overall, Chase is just happy chilling on the floor with a few toys, although he won't say no to an activity mat. He did have a swing but he wasn't much of a fan and he already outgrew it. Other than that, we were able to get by without any kind of rockers or seats or activity centers. He has a pack-and-play as a crib, a $10 changing pad attached to the top of a dresser, and will have a high chair when we get to Switzerland. Overall, we could have gotten by with even less, but it was nice to have the things we did.
Biggest baby ever: Chase
Both our mothers found our weight records for our first few months (my mom even had it charted on old school graph paper for both my brother and me so I digitalized those points to start). I combined the information and added Chase's info to objectively conclude that Chase is a freakishly large baby. I'm really hoping he is plateauing because he is in 12-18 month clothes and is 4 months old! I am hoping once he starts moving he will get leaner. We got him some sturdy clothes for Switzerland so it would be nice for them to last an appropriate amount of time!
All babies were exclusive breastfed during this time and it's not like the three of us were small! Chase is just HUGE!
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