Friday, December 31, 2021

2021 in Review

[Previous years in review: 20202019201820172016201520142013]

Like last year, this year was also quite intense!

We actually moved twice. The first time, we drove half-way across the country and settled into an apartment. Then, at the end of the year, we moved into our first house. Between there, we did many activities in the greater Connecticut area in the winter/spring, summer, and fall. We also visited Nate's family in Nebraska during the summer. Finally, I visited San Diego on my own in December. 

For once in a long time, we didn't leave the country where we resided the whole year! I guess that's the difference between living in the US and living in Europe. Chase slightly added to his state count with Pennsylvania, bringing it to 10 (MA, CT, RI, NY, NE, CA, NV, IA, IL, and PA). I guess we also drove through Indiana, Ohio, and New Jersey but I am not going to count those, yet. His continent (3: North America, Europe, and Africa) and country (13: USA, Switzerland, France, Spain, Morocco, Ukraine, Great Britain, Mexico, Italy, Poland, Sweden, Austria, and Denmark) counts stayed the same. 

In terms of crafts, I made a few earrings. Now that we're in this house, we can get back to some home improvements, so I will be sure to post about those next year. I am also still spending quite a bit of time finding birth parents for adoptees using DNA, probably helping about 10-12 people this last year. Other things I wrote about this year include: growing plants indoors (next year, we have a huge backyard to grow so much more!), new family photos, and Chase turning 7

As always, here is an Instagram collage of pictures from the last year. I don't use Twitter anymore, but I do still post on Instagram every now and again, which you can follow here

Happy 2022!



Monday, December 20, 2021

Christmas in our first house

At the very end of November, we bought a house here in Fairfield. We spent a few months this summer looking at houses (in this crazy market), but were lucky enough to find the one we wanted in the right neighbourhood and price in the beginning of September. This triggered the second move in two years at Christmas time. At the same time, as mentioned in the last post, my parents were also moving and actually moving into the apartment we were leaving! So, we had a stressful time logistically managing getting all of our stuff out while getting their stuff in (before they arrived since they were driving cross country again). Somehow, between working full time, we managed to get everything done and settled enough to host Christmas at our new house. We even had Katya come visit for a few days before Christmas! With my parents nearby, my brother visited for the holiday period, staying with us. This is the first time we've all been together for this time of year since maybe 2016? 



We are really enjoying this new house (even with the broken dishwasher and the fix-ups we've had to do -- more on that later) and after 8 years, we can finally get back to the original title of this blog. :)

Sunday, December 12, 2021

Saying goodbye to San Diego (for now)

Right after our offer on the house we bought was accepted (see next post!), my parents decided that they wanted to move to CT to be nearer to us for a while. Therefore, at the beginning of December, I flew to San Diego to help them clean out their house of our stuff that we've kept there for the last 15 years. I recycled almost all of my school work and most of my brother's. I donated lots and lots of things while packing boxes for the few things I wanted to keep (crafts, mostly). It was incredibly tiring and long, but my parents spent way longer dealing with all their stuff. 

What was fun is that Olga was planning to be in town right around the same time and Sakina flew down to join us. For a fun day, we got some lunch at the revamped Del Mar Highlands, got some ice cream at the new One Paseo, and got some coffee at the new UTC. It was great to be all together again (something we haven't done since Sakina's baby shower in 2017). [I also made them take some stuff to Goodwill, the library, and the recycling :) Moving is a stressful process!]


One of the pictures we took had us in exactly same order as we were in the picture we took in Japan in 2015. I added our latest picture to the one before. I think we haven't changed! 

Exploring Fall in CT/NY

[Previous local activities: summer in CT/NY/RIwinter/spring in CT]

Autumn/fall in New England is the best! It is one of the things I missed about the east coast while living in Switzerland. 

1. Corn mazes. I am pretty sure I spent the last many years psyching Chase up for New England corn mazes. What's even cooler is that both Olga and Boris & Laura live within driving distance of us, and decided to come for two separate weekends in October to relive our glorious corn maze years. It is only fitting that the last time I wrote about a corn maze (before Chase), we had done one with all three of them. 

The first weekend, Olga joined us for a really tough corn maze at Treat Farm in Orange, CT. We spent 2 hours walking it and still didn't finish it (only finding 4 of the 6 places that we needed to solve the puzzle). Afterwards, we drove over to Beardsley's Cider Mill in Shelton, CT to get cider donuts. It was great!

A few weekends later, Boris and Laura joined us for a corn maze at Plasko's Farm in Trumbull, CT. This maze was much more our speed and we easily finished it and found the answer to the riddle. We also grabbed some ice cream and cider donuts right there at the farm. It was fun catching up with Boris and Laura, who we hadn't seen since Denmark


2. McKinley Elementary Fair. Chase's elementary school has a yearly fundraising event where they have a full fair at the beach for the community. After the corn maze with Laura and Boris, we headed over there and enjoyed the rides. Chase found a few friends from school and they ran around going on rides on their own. It was fun to see him so happy with his friends. 

3. Halloween. Chase experienced his first American Halloween this year. He wasn't a fan on dressing up until maybe last year, but was the perfect age to enjoy the festivities this year. He decided to dress up like a witch (after we watched Hocus Pocus with Olga at the beginning of October). He went trick-or-treating with two friends in our building in the neighborhood around his elementary school. He got a huge haul of candy, most of which he didn't eat and is still sitting in our candy bowl. 

4. Escape Rooms. This is something that is not limited to the fall, but is something we did quite a bit once it got colder. We have now done three at Escapology (two of them with my parents) and one (just Nate and I) at Escape Rooms CT. It's not cheap, but a challenge we enjoy and with so many possibilities around us, there are still so many left to play!

5. NYC. It has somehow not been written in this blog, but Nate and I had a tradition during our years in Cambridge to go to NYC the weekend after Thanksgiving. We were able to reinstate that tradition this year, just taking the train into NYC and staying for a few nights. We went to Aladdin on Broadway, checked out Times Square, Rockefeller Center, and Hudson Yard. We spent many hours at the Museum of Natural History, and Chase was incredibly impressed to see Starry Night in person at the MoMA. Overall, a fun time in NYC which was possible because 5-12 year olds can now be vaccinated so Chase had one shot and two weeks (now he's fully vaccinated and we're both boosted). It was our first time in NYC all together since Chase was there when he was 3 months old (and got his first two teeth!). 





6. Another fun Christmas/December activity is seeing the Nutcracker. The CT Dance School was holding performances at Fairfield University -- very near us -- so we went. While Nate wasn't a big fan, I thought it was fun to expose Chase to this Christmas tradition.